How To Guard Your Heart Against External And Emotional Affairs
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Even if you are married to the best spouse in the whole world, if you do not guard your heart, you may end up “falling in love” with someone aside from your spouse and eventually ruin your marriage.
No one gets married and plans to have an affair but lots of married men and women are into affairs today because they slept when they should have been wide awake with their five senses alert.
1. Don’t be too friendly with the opposite s3x. This is where lots of married people land in trouble. Over spirituality and pride will destroy your marriage! You can’t handle close friendships with the opposite s3x as a married person. Your heart is involved. Set boundaries. Be disciplined. Be cordial. Be respectful. Be godly. Be holy.
2. Don’t share your problems with an opposite-s3x friend. It will bond you together. Problems bond people.
3. Don’t contact any opposite s3x you are fond of. If you secretly admire them, you are fond of them and there is a tingling in your heart at the mere thought of them, don’t contact them!
4. Avoid unnecessary eye contact that lingers with the opposite s3x.
5. Don’t tell the opposite s3x you are romantic or s3xy, that private information is for your spouse only.
6. Avoid discussions with the opposite s3x when you are tired, very sad, depressed, sorrowful, drowsy, sleepy, or very sick. This can cloud your judgment and make you say silly things. Talk to your husband/wife instead.
7. Avoid unnecessary compliments of the opposite s3x.
8. Stop saying “I love you” to the opposite s3x, for what?
9. Work on your marriage. Keep the fire of love and romance alive in your marriage!
10. Protect your family. Don’t share your marital problem with your opposite-s3x friend, it will bond you.
11. Never flirt with the opposite gender.
12. Mind the pictures you post on social media. Limit pictures that show your curves or portray you as s3xy.
13. Do not contact all your exes after marriage.
14. Don’t chat with the opposite s3x on the days you are horny.
15. Stop focusing on your spouse’s weaknesses and appreciate their strengths. If you always see the bad side of your spouse, you will be angry, bitter, and critical and look for someone who can “understand” you and make you happy aside from your spouse, that is the beginning of an emotional affair and eventual s3xual affair. It is the beginning of the end of a once glorious marriage!