16 Personality Traits That Trigger Faithfulness In Marriage 

A lot of marital adventures have hit the brick walls as a result of menial mistake. A common mistake that could have been avoided and set on again on the path of righteousness was given a boost.

Marriage is holy and should be respected. It is an live object that should be managed with care at optimal level. Majority of divorcees are regretting that incident that pushed them out of their wedlock. If you are legally married, treat your spouse as if there’s no other person, and truly, there’s none.

The following are personal traits placed on altar of recognition for marriage reformation.

1. Ultimate Vision: Your vision gives you the reasons to stay committed. When you have a vision of the kind of marriage you want to have and the kind of spouse you are working to become, you stay true even when it gets tough. Your vision will help shape your marriage the way you want it.

2. Fear: When you value what you have with your spouse and all you two have put in place over the years to make things out well, you will have reasons to fear losing it.

3. Love and Affection: When you demonstrate genuine love your spouse, you will be meticulous not to do an anything to hurt your spouse, and also, your utmost interest is to enjoy special moments with no other but your spouse

4. Humility and Support: Humility and total support for spouse is the key to reminding you not to be too confident in yourself that you play with temptation. It will  will also play a receptive role of warnings when your spouse cautions you about someone you are getting too attach to.

5. Frequent Warm Communication: When you both take time to have silly, deep, serious, difficult and naughty conversations with each other, be it face to face, online, on phone calls or video calls even when you are in a long distance marriage; it will make faithfulness easier to practice. The danger is when you get used to communicating frequently with another. Frequent communication keeps you both connected. Emotional faithfulness leads to $3xual faithfulness.

6. Moral Values: This has to do with compliance with behavioral rules or total observation of acceptable societal norms. Your values determine your lifestyle and this determines what you give time to, who you give time to, the environments you take yourself to and what consumes your thoughts. If you don’t have nurtured values as an individual, you will easily fall.

7. Right Company: There’s must be elements of jealousy no matter how you define your relationship. You must be careful with the kind of people you go out with or around. When you surround yourself with friends who encourage and celebrate your faithfulness and who are also faithful to their spouses, you will challenge each other to focus on your marriage. Check your circle, are you surrounded by cheats.

8. Conscience: Conscience is the best judge. Your conscience is what flogs you when you are doing wrong. It is your ladder to God, thus, reminds you of your actions and its consequences. If you numb your conscience, you will do wrong with no remorse

9. Good Treatment At Home: When you both treat each other well at home, it is so easy to be faithful. You are happy at home, why mess it? When the home is full of fights, arguments, coldness and drama; it gives temptations power

10.Transparency: Successful relationships or marriages are not built on the altar of falsehood. Telling your spouse who you are with and where you are without being asked will make you accountable and prevent you from slipping. Affairs thrive in secrecy

11. Objectivity: When you start to see yourself enjoying another person’s company not your spouse and be rational about it, you will realize it is not worth it. So you will have a wonderful time with this new person, and then what? Your future is still with your spouse, and that temporary good time is not worth risking it all for. You should stick to your spouse through the mountains and valleys.

12. Soberness: Alcohol tends to make many married people misbehave, sometimes to the point they don’t remember their bad behaviour. When you remain sober you will make better judgements

13. Purity Of Mind: When you are mindful of what you feed your mind, you will guard your ways. $3x starts in the mind

14. Imaginery boundaries: When you make it clear to colleagues, friends and even online contacts that you have boundaries because you respect your marriage, others will respect your marriage too

15. Self-control: When you have the strength to stop yourself when you notice you are getting too attached to another person or getting turned on by them; you will take yourself out of danger

16. Great love making at home: When you are being made love to well at home, why go anywhere else? A $3xually satisfied spouse tends to remain faithfulness.