How To Protect Your Marriage

Annantram Heritage –

Even if you are married to the best spouse in the whole world.if you do not guard your heart, you may end up ‘falling in love’ with someone aside your spouse and eventually ruin your marriage.

No one gets married and plans to have affair but lots of married men and women are into affairs today because they slept when they should have been wide awake with their five senses alert.

1. Don’t be too friendly with the opposite sex.

This is where a lot of married people got in trouble. Over spirituality and pride will destroy your marriage! You can’t handle closee friendship with the opposite sex as a married person.

Your heart is involved. Set boundaries. Be disciplined. Be cordial. Be respectful. Be godly. Be holy.

2. Don’t share your personal problems with anopposite-sexx friend. It will bond you together. Problems bond people.

3. Don’t contact any opposite sex you are fond of. If you secretly admire them, you are fond of them and there is a tingling in your heart at the mere thought of them, don’t contact them!

4. Avoid unnecessary eye contact that lingers with the opposite sex.

5. Don’t tell them the opposite sex you are romantic or sexy. That private information is for your spouse only.

6. Avoid discussions with the opposite sex when you are tired, very sad, depressed, sorrowful, drowsy, sleep,y or very sick. This can cloud your judgment and make you say silly things. Talk to your husband/wife instead.

7. Avoid unnecessary compliments of the opposite sex. Unnecessary compliments may lead to unusual things that you may regret.

8. Stop saying “I love you” to the opposite sex. ‘I love you’ is meant for your spouse, who is qualified to enjoy the love in all areas.

9. Work on your Marriage. Keep the fire of love and romance burning in your Marriage.

10. Protect your Family.
Don’t share your marital problems with your opposite-sex friend. It will bond you.

11. Never flirt with the opposite sex.

12. Mind the pictures you post on social media. Limit pictures that show your curves or portray you as sexy.

13. Do not contact all your EX after marriage.

14. Don’t chat with the opposite sex on the days you are horny.

15. Stop focusing on your spouse’s weaknesses and appreciate their strengths. If you always see the bad side of your spouse, you will be angry, bitter, critical, and look for someone who can “understand” you and make you happy aside from your spouse. That is the beginning of an emotional affair and an eventual sexual affair. It is the beginning of the end of a once glorious marriage!

What you will not eat, don’t bring it to your nose. Don’t smell it! Don’t start what you cannot finish! Avoid all emotional and sexual affairs. They will destroy your marriage!

Let this message get to the Good Women Leader and Men’s Leader and let them share it on their various group platforms so all married men and women will get it. Let them discuss it at their meetings.

God will keep our homes, marriages, blessed in Jesus’ Name, Amen.